It started with a remarkable little girl—let's call her by her latest Netflix profile name, "Labubu Slay." Living with ADHD and ODD, she sent signals before every explosion—tiny emotional breadcrumbs that most people missed. But those signals held truth. They weren't just outbursts—they were invitations to understand, to connect, to see the world through her eyes.
ThroughHerEyes.net was born from that spark. This is more than a website—it's a movement for emotional literacy, inner sovereignty, and self-trust. We create metaphor-based tools, workshops, and resources that help caregivers, educators, and neurodivergent individuals turn everyday interactions into moments of clarity, compassion, and growth.
We believe:
Whether you're here to heal, to learn, or to lead—you belong. ThroughHerEyes.net is your space to explore emotional literacy as a path to personal sovereignty and relational transformation.
Look through her eyes. See the truth beneath the surface. And let that truth guide you home.
"Every signal tells a story. Every story deserves to be heard."
Today, Through Her Eyes is a dual-lens archive that offers two perspectives on the same emotional journey.
One lens sees through the perspective of an adult learning to interpret, mend, and build trust.
Interpret signals before the eruption
Mend ruptures with ritual and repair
Build trust through co-authorship
The other lens views through the child's experience of navigating emotional intensity.
Navigate emotions with dignity and voice
Express signals in steam, silence, and bounce
Deserve to be heard and understood
This isn't just a story.
We believe that behavior is language, and every eruption tells a story. Our approach transforms the way you see moments of intensity.
Learn to recognize the early warning signs before the explosion. Every child sends signals—we help you read them with clarity and compassion.
Use metaphor and storytelling to make sense of chaos. Transform meltdowns into meaningful moments that can be named, understood, and navigated together.
Build rituals of connection that restore dignity and trust. Repair isn't about fixing—it's about writing the next chapter together, with mutual respect and understanding.
The remarkable little girl whose journey inspired this entire platform—a story of signals, storms, and the path to understanding.
Living with ADHD and ODD, she navigated a world that often felt too loud, too fast, too much. Before each eruption, she sent signals—tiny tremors that said, "I'm losing my grip."
At first, those signals looked like defiance. Like chaos. Like something to manage or suppress.
But when we learned to see through her eyes, everything changed.
"Her signals weren't disruptions. They were invitations. Invitations to co-author a different story—one where her intensity had dignity, her emotions had language, and her eruptions became opportunities for connection."
That journey—from misunderstanding to metaphor, from reaction to repair—became the foundation of Through Her Eyes.
Today, her story continues to guide families, educators, and therapists who are learning to read the signals, decode the storms, and co-author repair with the children in their lives.
Whether you're a parent, educator, therapist, or someone who believes in the power of emotional literacy, we invite you to explore our resources and begin transforming eruptions into opportunities.
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Every signal deserves to be heard. Every eruption deserves dignity. Every child deserves understanding.