Start Here: Your First Steps

New to Through Her Eyes? Begin your journey with these free resources designed to help you decode behavior and co-author repair.

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Download the Ebook

Get The Volcano Code ebook to understand the metaphor framework that transforms how you see behavior.

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Build Your Code

Use the Build Your Own Volcano Code Worksheet to co-create a personalized framework with your child.

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Practice Rituals

Get The Volcano Ritual Map to learn simple practices that restore calm and dignity during eruptions.

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All three resources are 100% free – no payment required

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FREE RESOURCES

Start Your Journey Free

These foundational tools will help you begin seeing behavior through a new lens—no payment required.

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Build Your Own Volcano Code Worksheet

Co-create a personalized Volcano Code that fits your family's rhythms. Interactive, validating, and designed to spark connection.

Interactive co-creation prompts
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Shame-free emotional language
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The Volcano Code Ebook

A playful framework for naming big feelings without shame or fear.

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The Volcano Ritual Map

Simple rituals to restore dignity and calm during volcano moments.

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Volcano Ritual Map: Expanded Edition

Take the map further with depth, prompts, and premium guidance for families who want to transform everyday eruptions into lasting rituals of agency and repair.

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OUR APPROACH

Why These Tools Work

Our resources are built on the principle that behavior is language, and every eruption has a story worth hearing.

Co-Creation, Not Control

These tools invite collaboration between adult and child, building trust through shared authorship rather than top-down discipline.

Shame-Free Language

Using metaphor and playful frameworks helps children name big feelings without judgment, creating space for emotional honesty.

Rituals Over Reactions

Transform moments of intensity into predictable rituals that restore dignity and connection, building resilience over time.

Dual-Lens Understanding

See the situation from both adult and child perspectives, fostering empathy and deeper connection during challenging moments.

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"Every signal tells a story. Every story deserves to be heard with dignity and understanding."

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Every signal deserves to be heard. Every eruption deserves dignity. Every child deserves understanding.